Watch out….there’s a hen do about 

For anyone who doesn’t know, I am getting married early next year which I am SUPER excited for! The time is coming round really quick, and with lots of events in between now and then I feel like I’m going to blink and it is going to be here! So, with all the exciting fabulous stuff that comes with a wedding – one thing that is just round the corner for me is my hen do! I’m off to Tenerife with a close bunch of friends, and I honestly cannot wait. There are 10 of us in total and to run down a quick brief on my group of friends, please see picture below with a short blurb about them all:


Starting with the top row, left to right.

Steph – loves to chat (typical hairdresser lol) one of those ones that pops in for one drink and 5 bottles later we are still going (not sure who is the bad influence). 

Laura – the baby of the group. My fellow sun junkie, shoe lover and RnB freak. Got me in trouble with a sausage roll once. Don’t ask.

Beth – the actual pure pain in my arse. But if I’m going to bring someone down with me – It’s always going to be her.

Middle row, left to right.

Kristy – call her Kirsty if you REALLY want a reaction. Sensitive soul, but believes she’s Beyoncé after a drink or two. 

Sarah – tiny enough to keep safe in your pocket. Big gym lover with the body to prove it (much to everyone else’s disgust – pass us the cake).

Jen – Jen, Jen, Jen. There is not enough time to go on about Jen. If you can get her to a party, she will be the life and soul I promise you. 

Bottom row, left to right.

Natalie – my long time friend, known since birth. Fellow Gin lover. Hopeless romantic, but has some great stories that come with it!

Sam – my partner in wine and my twinny. Had a run in with a possum once, a story she loves to tell.

Naomi – she’s not angry, she just has resting bitch face. (Although in this picture she actually looks like she is breaking a smile!) Drinks a lot of tea and reads a lot of books.

So, there you go, that’s my girl gang. And I love them very much for making this all happen. 

I thought I would do a blog about my 5 hen do holiday essentials (minus the obvious – passport, money, tickets, clothes) – I have been discussing what I am taking with me for MONTHS. I’m only going for 5 days, but you would think I’m going for 5 years! There’s a lot of planning that goes into girls suitcases. In no particular order…..

1. Some fancy swimwear 


We are going to a beach club when we are there so I thought I would go for a bit of sparkle! And I love pineapple print so I just couldn’t resist the other! Both of these were from boohoo. Click here to visit Boohoo

2. A drinking cup


Fancy drinking by the pool but saving pennies? Buy a bottle of your fav tipple at the airport get some mixer when you arrive – set up your own bar from your room! 

3. Music 


I lovvvvve music so I always make sure I’ve created a playlist before I go away! I use Spotify to create my own, or download pre made ones. I also use a wireless speaker. I only got this one earlier this year but it is GREAT. It’s the wireless, waterproof outdoor turtle – myself and Laura have one each and you can pair them to make it louder. *Queue 10 girls belting out a bit of the spice girls singing into their hairbrushes whilst getting ready.*

4. Cute beach/pool bag


How cute?! Ok, so I may of created the body I want to have with the luscious locks I dream of rather than a true reflection of myself – but I love this little customised jute bag! Perfect for carrying my bits to the pool/beach. I used customised by Laura as she was recommended to me by Naomi who had already ordered a few previous items from her, and I have to say Laura was brilliant and her prices are great too. You get to select hair, eye colour, outfit and other bits! Check out her website Click here

5. Make up bag


What girl is complete without her make up bag?! These are my go to items. 

Make up bag – Kurt Geiger 

Primer – benefit the pore fessional 

Foundation – Estée Lauder double wear and urban decay powder

Contour – NYX wonder stick 

Blush – maybeline dream touch blush 

Highlighter – benefit high beam 

Eyeshadow – urban decay naked 3 

Eyeliner – Lancôme crayon 

Eyebrow pencil – Ted Baker 

Mascara – maybeline lash sensational 

Lips – L’Oréal and soap and glory 

I tend to get most of my make up and face care items from Feel Unique online – they always have some great offers on. To visit their website Click here

I of course have many other things being squeezed into my case, but these were just a few at the top of my list. Countdown is on, get me to the sunshine and cocktails! 

Do you have any holiday essentials you always take? Let me know! 

Thanks for stopping by! I hope you all have a fabulous weekend! 

Lisa & Winston 👸🏼🐶❤️

Mental Health Awareness

One of my good friends contacted me this week to say he was doing a fundraiser for a charity called Mind. A charity, if I’m honest, I had not heard too much about myself. Of course happy to help him out, I had a look at their website to see what they were all about. This is a mental health charity – A topic I feel that isn’t spoken about enough. I think everyone at some point in their life will either suffer from mental health problems, or will know someone who has. Many people fight on a day to day basis with depression, anxiety, extreme mood changes, stress, worry – just to name a few. Why is it that we seem to place more importance on physical health over mental? We are taught to look after our bodies – but why don’t we practise mental first aid?

Mental health awareness isn’t just a way to right wrongs and to stop people judging and ignoring. It’s a great opportunity to help all the people who feel like they’re suffering alone.

One of the best things you can do for someone in this situation is to listen to them, or if you are the person having trouble, find someone you can talk to. Don’t feel silly or that you might be judged – know one thing, you are not alone. It is important to share these emotions and feelings, what you are going through doesn’t make you strange or mean something is wrong with you. 

I would like to share my story, I can relate to the feeling of thinking that there was something wrong with me – I was going through a rough patch and I became very obsessesive, over one thing in particular- recycling.  Now, I had always been good at recycling where I could – but when I hit this blip I went overboard. Anything and everything that could be thrown away I would have to check if it could be recycled. If my recycling boxes at home were over flowing, I would have to take them to a recycle bank before the bin men collected. If I was out and about, rubbish would come home with me so I could recycle it properly. If friends came round and put things in the normal bin that I felt shouldn’t have been in there, I would take them out when they left. It was a daily thing and although very good for the environment, it was not great for my mental health. I started telling myself if I didn’t do it, something bad might happen. To the outside world I’m not sure I carried myself too differently from normal, I got on with my day to day life and would have a smile on my face. But underneath I felt I had become very out of control and couldn’t handle my emotions. I felt quite alone and all over the place. I didn’t want to talk about it, I didn’t think I needed to – and even if I did, how do I even start that conversation?! I realised that with my obsession with the recycling, I had a system. It was neat and organised. And I felt I was in control of it. It gave me some sort of satisfaction that although the rest of my life at that point felt very much everywhere – this one part was controlled for me and I thought it made me feel slightly better. I was extremely lucky to meet 4 girls at work, who happened to invite me to a get together they were having one night (to this day I do not truely know what made them ask, but I am so thankful they did) and that is where I started healing. They done the best thing they could have done – they asked if I was OK. And it was then that I realised I wasn’t OK, but I finally was ready to talk about it. All the emotion, how I was feeling, just came out over time. Nobody laughed at me, no one judged me, they had moments they could relate. I didn’t even realise I was fighting OCD, until I started to talk about my problems. A weight had been lifted and it felt so good. I found great comfort in these girls from then on (and still to this day!) To say they were a help to me, is the biggest understatement ever. I found the more I spoke about my problems and fears in my mind, the more free I became of the voices in my head. I was relaxing, becoming me again. The recycling became less of a worry, I still do take care of the environment of course, but I do not think of it the way I did then. I hope by sharing this that it helps people, even if it is just one person, to see you do not have to be frightened to talk about what you are feeling. 

A picture of me and the girls from 2012 ❤️ (in animal onesies for a New Years party!)

If you can do one thing today, ask someone if they are ok. How they are feeling. If there is anything you can help with. And if someone asks you any of these questions, respond in the best way you feel you can at the time. It isn’t easy, but it is all progress. 

If you are in need of someone to talk to and you aren’t sure who to turn to, the fantastic charity Mind are there to help give the support you might need. Please click here to visit there website

As I mentioned, my friend Dan is  fundraising for this incredible charity. He will be completing a 12 hour badminton session on the 16th December. I can barely stay awake for 12 hours let alone play a sport for that long, so I tip my hat to him. This is a very important charity for Dan and for many others, if you could in any way support him with his fundraising this would be greatly appreciated. 

Please click here to visit Dan’s JustGiving page
Alternatively, you can text a donation – Winston has given the details of how to do this below:

Here is a pic of Dan and I! 


No one should have to suffer in silence with Mental Health. Help someone out if you can. A great link from the mind website if you want further information of how to help someone who has a mental health issue Please click here

Thank you for taking the time to read my blog ❤️ Happy Friday, and have a lovely weekend ❤️

Love Lisa & Winston 👸🏼🐶

If life gives you lemons…Make a Disaronno Sour

Happy weekend everyone! After a busy week, I have been very much looking forward to a quiet Friday night in. And what way to make it better than to add a cocktail to my evening (or maybe two!) 

I like to try different cocktails and experiment with different ingredients – I would love to have a little cocktail bar! I live in an area that has almost everything – but I think it’s missing a good bar – a nice place to relax after a long day, with lots of cocktail offers (why limit happy to just an hour?!) and with a fabulous atmosphere that everyone talks about and loves to pop in! But my kitchen is the closest I think I will be getting to that, so for now my (non paying) customers are my friends and fiancé.

My fiancé (Dayne) LOVES a fruity drink – often when we go out he will pick a real snazzy cocktail (that has all the sparkles and decorations you can think of lol) but one of his absolute faves is a simple Disaronno Sour. 

Now, there are a few variations to making a Disaronno Sour, and Dayne is very particular at the type he likes. From my understanding the obvious difference between what he counts as a good one and a bad one, is egg whites. If you are anything like me the thought of drinking egg whites makes you feel a bit ill…..but I will say to give it a try, as you might just change your mind (like I did). 

Here is the recipe for how we like our Disaronno Sour (which is originally from the Disaronno website Click here to view)


Ingredients

  • 50ml Disaronno
  • 25ml lemon juice
  • 5ml sugar syrup
  • Egg white 

Have a jar or a tumbler with ice at the ready. Simply add all the ingredients into a shaker, give it a good mix up…..pour over ice and TA-DA – one delicious Disaronno Sour. 

Tip: separating your egg white – I’ve seen all these fancy ways and gadgets to remove the yolk from an egg, when a friend gave me a very simple solution – by using your hands. Of course wash your hands before (and after!). Crack the egg, have your hand slightly opened to allow the egg white to run through your fingers into a bowl/container beneath, and you will be left with the yolk in your hand – EASY PEASY. (The egg yolks can be kept to use for a carbonara, or even a hair mask apparently?! I’ve not tried the latter!) 

(I will be back to update this photo at some point – it was not my best! I drank the other before I remembered to take a picture – oops!) 

This classic cocktail is refreshing with a sweet taste and a sour twist. It can be done without egg whites, but I have to say it does not give it the same finish, and personally I do not think it tastes anywhere near as good. But give it a go and let me know what you think! Also if you have any cocktail suggestions, please share!

I’m off to shake up another cocktail! Enjoy your weekend guys! 


Lisa & Winston 👸🏼🐶

The simple life

It’s been FOREVER since I have posted. I’ve been real slack….caught up being busy doing…well, I’m not too sure what. But I want to get back into it, I find writing one of the most therapeutic things to do. So here I am, hi again! 

This gave me a perfect idea for a blog. As I said, I’ve been caught up being busy. Doing what though? Obviously I haven’t been sat doing nothing this whole time, I have a 9-5, home life to live and not forgetting to be sociable. But really, too busy to not find a few hours to do something I enjoy? I feel it becomes a very good excuse “I’m just too busy”. I’m terrible for making life more complicated than it needs to be – I’m a worrier, and I’m very good at thinking about all the things that need doing – but honestly not as good actioning them. I just complicate things. If I spent more time doing the jobs that need doing than just thinking about them, I’d free up a lot more time to do stuff I love and spend time with the people I love. So here are some ideas I feel will help start living the simple life (or maybe I should say more simple, because is life ever completely simple?!) 


The big clear out 

Room by room get rid of the things you no longer use or need. I always find I make more of a mess before it starts to look better! Get some boxes and some bin bags and go wild. If you haven’t used it/work it in the past 6 months do you REALLY still need it?! That top you bought when you were 17 that you LOVED and are convinced it will come back into fashion at some point, and although it is a big snug (and by snug I mean you can barely get it over your head) you will of lost those few pounds by the time everyone will be wearing them….No. JUST NO. It has to go. Do it in small chunks or dedicate a whole weekend for it, either way get it done – you will not be disappointed on the satisfactory feeling that comes with it.

Learn to say no

I find this hard. I’m a people pleaser, I don’t like the thought of letting anyone down. But sometimes saying yes to more than you can handle, is not the answer. Learn to say no guilt free. It does not make you a bad person. 


Spend time with people you love 

Simple. Wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, friends or family – whoever. These people bring out true happiness, the more you do it the happier you will be. 

Spend time alone

This isn’t easy for everyone. I love having a little time to myself. It can do wonders for your peace of mind. 

Manage your money

I am guilty of spending my money like it grows on trees. I am one that believes work hard and play harder, but money can cause stress. I never want to cut out having fun, but I’m an over spender – especially on food and drink! Managing my money is something I could do better. Set up direct debits, cut off useless spending (trust me, go through your bank statement and look at the random spending!) and perhaps look at a monthly budget. 

Unfollow

How many ‘friends’ clog up your feeds with useless posts etc? No offence people. Social media wastes a lot of time, your mental energy and sanity. I guess ideally if you can ditch the lot, how simpler would life be?! But if not, narrow down what you chose to view, you don’t need to follow the whole world. It can be addictive and brain washing, and people only post what they want you to see. Do more things to make you forget to look at your phone. 


The things you put off – do them

Once they are done, they are done right? No more mental burden on your mind. Usually, putting these things off only make them worse – if you do it sooner rather than later you can tick it off the list. 

And finally…..ask for help

This doesn’t make you weak. I’m guilty of not doing this in the worry that I’m adding more things to someone else’s list. You can’t always do everything. Don’t feel bad to admit you need help sometimes. 


So, that’s a few steps I plan to try and live a simpler lifestyle. It’s a bank holiday weekend so I’m going to start with a bedroom clear out – Wish me luck! I hope everyone has a lovely weekend! If anyone has any tips or advice for a simpler life, please comment below! 

Lisa & Winston 👸🏼🐶❤️

Peanut butter is life….(for Winston)

Peanut butter – I find it is one of those things you either love or hate. I like peanuts, and I like butter…..but peanut butter, no no not for me thanks. The smell brings back memories of being a child and my brother having it smothered on his toast in the mornings. It now has a more recent memory for me where I went on a self catering holiday with a friend, we were budgeting so decided to do rolls for lunches, I went for traditional ham and cheese and she went for peanut butter – you would of thought she was eating the most expensive lavish meal, she was really enjoying her little tiny finger roll caked in the stuff – I even think she said ‘this is the best roll she’s ever had’ – that’s a pretty big statement to make, perhaps I am missing out on the PB craze. 

Anywho, this isn’t about what I like to have in my sandwiches whilst sunning it up abroad. This is about the new found love for Winston. I’m always trying to find new things to put in his Kong. One of his Instagram pals, another Winston (check out his page – @winstonwiggles he is a peanut butter nutter with a super smashing set of nashers!) And we thought it was about time to give some of the gooey stuff a go. 

I have a great pet store close by to me called unique pets – and thought I would see if they sold it. I came across the Peamutt Butter for dogs made by Duerr’s. So into the basket it went with everything else I saw along the way that I think Winston might like (this dog gets more treats than I do!) 

Well, I got home and put the bag on the floor – of course Winston was head first in there to see what goodies he had. I pulled out the peanut butter, and he sat patiently with his big goggly eyes popping out of his head in desperation to know what it was. Honestly, this smells EXACTLY the same as human peanut butter. If I liked it, I probably would of tried it myself to be honest. I don’t think I need to explain too much about how much Winston liked it – I will show you the pictures instead, as I feel this shows love at first sight in all its glory. 

Pure love right?! He now goes nuts (no pun intended) when he see’s the jar! I would definitely recommend this nutty treat for your dog, it is not expensive and has no hidden nasties – and most of all it’s delicious according to Winston! Although, he’s more annoyed the effort he has to put in to get it out of his Kong compared to licking it straight from the jar!

If you are in the Buckinghamshire area I highly recommend Unique Pets. You can find more information on their website – Please click here or check out their Instagram page @unique_pets_

The makers of peamutt butter also do some delicious looking human jams and recipes too! Check out there website Click here

Please note I am not paid or sponsored to blog  – I do it out of my own love for writing my blog on a quiet evening in, relaxing with a glass of wine and a pug curled on my lap. I like to spread (another pun – I just couldn’t help myself) good things when I find them! 

Thanks for stopping by – we hope you have a FAB bank holiday weekend! Any comments feel free to leave them below! 

Lots of love, 

Lisa & Winston 👸🏼🐶❤

Is it a diary? Is it a notebook? Kinda – It’s a bullet journal. 

Have you ever heard of a bullet journal? I hadn’t until I started a course with a company called Parners With You (stay tuned for a Blog post about these fabulous lot!) and shortly after it was then mentioned by my mum, who started her own – and we are like two peas in a pod with artsy craftsy colourful bits and bobs! So if she liked it, likelihood I would too – she bought me some stuff to create my own. The best way to describe a bullet journal…..an option to help manage time/diary/notes/lists and all sorts. A simple idea of a notepad with numbered pages, an easy index page to find what you are looking for. All in one place.

Now, anyone who is like me – a bullet journal is just perfect. Let me explain.

  • I am the queen of lists. I have a list for EVERYTHING.
  • Ticking things off (is that not the most satisfying part?!)
  • I am a planner. I am the one that has the train route plan, times of where we need to be and how long we have to get to each place – handwritten and saved on my phone (YES, I am THAT annoying person)
  • STATIONERY. Remember how you used to feel about getting new stationery going in to the new year at school? I still get that at the age of 30 walking into a Staples Store.
  • Sticking with the old school vibes – writing in your best hand writing. I enjoy writing. And I like it even more if it’s neat and tidy.
  • Tracking things – give me a box I have to tick/colour/draw in each day for doing something, I am more likely to do it. To drinking water, to eating my greens to moisturising! (I hold my dry hands up, I am the worst for bothering with slapping cream on)
  • Doodling – just call me Pablo Picasso

So, if any of the above apply to you, this will be right up your street. If not – You will probably hate everything about it I am sure – I know this from a friend of mines reaction when I told her about this magnificent invention……she looked at me as if I was bonkers lol Why would I take time to make these unnecessary things neat, tidy and pretty – when you have post it notes to write things on? And pre made diarys you can buy? Total opposite ends of the scale. I get it though, a bullet journal isn’t for everyone.

But you don’t have to make it complicated, or spend lots of time on it if you don’t want to. It can be however you want it to be. I decided to put a bit more effort in with mine – I find it theraputic and I enjoy adding to it after a busy day at work (and makes a change from staring at a computer/phone or TV)

Where to start? You will need a notebook, there are so many out there – ones that are specifically for bullet journals that have the pages numbered already, to your standard book from your local supermarket. I have a Leuchtturm1917 – which can be found by clicking here. I like this book as the pages are numbered and instead of lines it has dots, so if I want to draw things it makes it a bit easier (it’s the simple things!) Get a nice pen, or pens, depending on how colourful you want to be! You are good to go! You can add any stickers, tapes and other bits that you want as you go along and start getting into the swing of it.


Start your bullet journal with leaving a few pages for your Index and most people do the year overview/year calander as the first part. From then on, go wild! Add bits as and when – with what ever you like. Struggling to think of things to add? Pinterest is the place to be – there are so many different ideas and styles to keep you going for the rest of your life I would think! Or YouTube – loads of demonstrations out there.

Here are some pages from mine so far!


I would love to hear any pages you add to your bullet journals or any ideas you have if you are thinking of starting one! 

Thank you for stopping by! 

Lots of love 

Lisa & Winston ❤👸🏼🐶🐾

Just a little note…

In January I mentioned about getting back in the gym again – I got myself a gym buddy (my friend Jen) and together we decided we were going to smash it out of the park this year. 4.30am wake ups to be at the gym for 5am. That first 5mins of waking up is an absoloute killer. It is make or break for me – the feeling I get when my alarm goes off, is what I can only imagine the end of the world will feel like. Dragging myself out of my warm, cosy bed. Out of my dreamy slumber. To take me to to a place that resembles hell. Why would I want to do this to myself? Why not just close my eyes again? I have been working hard, have a rest. I will start again tomorrow. I really cant be bothered. I am so tired. Honestly, the list of these and many more go through my head EVERYDAY. Once I am out the door, I completley forget about the morning monster I have just emerged from, albeit I still resemble one at that time. A few weeks in and we were starting to get into full swing, and it was even getting easier to get up (only by a tiny bit).

There is always time to take a quick mirror selfie

Then we hit a bump, both of us had reasons we couldn’t go to the gym for a few days. The few days turned into a week. The week turned into 2. Why is it so easy to fall out of a routine and so hard to get back to it! So, this Thursday just gone we said we HAD to get back to it. NO EXCUSES. Thursday morning at 4.30am the miserable monster was back and pulled herself out of bed, it seemed harder than ever. But at least I done it….a certain someone turned her alarm off and didn’t turn up, I won’t mention any names though lol.

A few weeks before, I had been making a little gift for Jen (oops mentioned her name) to help us along with a bit of motivation, so I thought what a perfect day to leave this for her on her doorstep.


What I had done was a jar of little notes for the year that included motivation quotes, workouts, inspirational quotes and just random blurb, that hopefully would make her feel positive when getting up – either about working out, herself, life or just make her laugh. One small positive thought in the morning, can change your whole day. So far, she has had quotes to wake up to….which I am pleased about as when I added the hardcore workouts in, I kind of forgot that I would have to get myself through these too at the gym – I can safely say I am nervous for the days she pulls those ones out.

Winston gave me a hand of course


So, we are back in the game – and heres to it continuing! Holidays and a wedding to work for, so we should have plenty of motivation to get us out the door in the morning! If you have had a small period of time off, or even if you have had a gym membership for a year and have had reasons/excuses to not go (it is easy to do, I have been there!) – get a gym buddy, get in a routine. It starts hard, but every day gets that little bit easier to do it. You’re future self will thank you for it!

And as it’s been Random Acts Of Kindess week – if you have some spare time and want to cheer someone up why not do a jar of notes! It doesn’t have to be a year, it can be for certain days, or when someone is just feeling a bit down – or even stick random post it’s at work, home or even a bus stop for people to find!

Give Jen a follow on Instagram ❤ @jennifer_carr88
Have a lovely weekend everyone!

Love Lisa & Winston 👸🏼🐾❤

You Will Never Regret Being Kind

I was so glad for it to be the weekend. How long was January guys?! Never ending! So finally pay day had arrived earlier in the week and I had made plans to go to the cinema with my fiancé, and grab a bite to eat. We were eating after the cinema, but I didn’t think I could make it through a film on an empty stomach, so had to get some nachos and a glass of prosecco – we will just call this a pre dinner snack. We decided to see Split – which FYI was a good watch, I even managed to stay awake throughout the whole film, which is record breaking for me. After getting out of the cinema and having a mini debate about where to go for food, we agreed on Wagamamas. Another glass of prosecco and some yum food (despite my order being forgotten about, my fiancé devouring his food in front of me, then spilling his plate of remains over the table whilst stabbing prawn heads with chop sticks as he impatiently waited for me to get my food and eat it.) 

The real part of this blog was something that happened as we were walking back to the car. I saw a lady shivering under a blanket sat outside. My heart sank. Regardless to what her story was and the reason for her not having anywhere to go was beside the point, this is not a nice situation for anyone to be in. We walked back to the car and so many things crossed my mind. Firstly, this weather – it has been freezing. I thought of the times I sat at home complaining about being what I call ‘freezing’. Not even being greatful for the roof I have over my head, the clothes in my wardrobe I can put on to add layers and the heating I can turn up. Secondly, she’s alone. Where are her friends or family? If anything happened to me I know I have full support around me. From serious matters to just having a bad day, there is always someone I can call. To not have anyone, is really upsetting for me. I started to then think about how she must be feeling – sad, alone, helpless, scared….I don’t know, I just couldn’t even imagine being in that situation. 

I couldn’t walk away not doing anything. I don’t like to give money as I don’t know what this goes to, and I wouldn’t want to be making the situation she was in any worse. I went to a McDonald’s that was round the corner (I wanted to find something a bit nicer! But not much was left open that was serving still) A cup of hot tea and something to eat, although it was a small gesture, I hoped it may help slightly.  

I walked back down to where she was, she was covering her face with the blanket to shield from the wind, I crouched beside her and said what was in the cup and bag – now, I have given people expensive, real thoughtful gifts in the past, but I have to say her response was probably one of the most genuine, thankful appreciative responses I’ve ever had. She was so greatful, and was super happy as it now also meant she had another sticker for her McDonald’s coffee card to get a free one in the morning. I passed the bag over as well and she could not of said thank you enough. I wished her well and off I went – I felt a small part of happiness as I returned to the car that for perhaps just a tiny moment, that although not life changing, but that might of made a slight difference to her evening. 

It got me thinking, this was 5 minutes of my time and less than £5 from my purse, not a big deal to me – but was a big deal for someone else. I appreciated everything I had last night. I know we can’t help everyone, but if you have a chance to possibly make a small difference to someone’s life, do it. You will never regret being kind. 

I woke up this morning still thinking about it -it led me to a website – random acts of kindness foundation. And they are launching a #RAKWEEK2017 – you are invited to join in a week of kindness from Feb 12-18. Helping to build a kinder world? That’s the sort of place I want to be – I have signed myself up….so stay tuned.


If you are interested – please Click here to take you to their website. Or check out their social channels below.

Facebook
Instagram
Twitter

Let’s help turn the world kind ❤

Lots of love,

Lisa & Winston 👸🏼🐶

Dear younger self…

I turned 30 last year, and I honestly thought it was going to be a big life changing moment for  me the way ‘the big 3 0’ is spoken about……my birthday appeared – I turned 3 0 andddddd would you believe it?! I woke up feeling EXACTLY the same as I did when I was 29 (apart from the excitement of it being my birthday of course) The only thing that really changed was I now get asked “soooo, how does it feel to be 30? Anything different?!” In all honesty, no. What did I or anyone else expect to happen?! But I have reflected on my teenage years and I thought about how I wish I knew back then, what I know now. So, if I could speak to my younger self, here was some of my thoughts….

Being popular in school 

I cared WAY too much about this. I was never part of the popular gang. And back then it really bothered me. Has it affected my life now? NO. Do the people in your life now care if you were in the popular group? NO. So just don’t worry about it. Those popular people are highly unlikely to be part of your future life. 



FRIENDS 

It’s hard making friends in your teens – and girls can be RIGHT bitches. Sometimes people you have spent a lot of time with become – not friends, not enemies but just strangers with memories. I am lucky enough to still be great friends with 2 middle school friends, but  I drifted from my secondary school friends within what felt like pretty much the moment I left that school. I later in life met a small group of girls that I worked with – they became my rocks, and very much still are. I learnt it’s less important to have tons of friends, and more important to have real ones. 



Your parents 

They aren’t as embarrassing as you think. Honestly. Ok ok, they have to embarrass you every now and again, that’s just part of the parent title! But remember they are humans too……be nice, respect them and look after them. Be thankful – you will realise how much they did for you when you look back – try to appreciate it at the time. The moments you think ‘eurghhh they are SO unfair!’ Think about the bigger picture….perhaps maybe they aren’t being as irrational as you think.



Heartbreak

The one that broke your heart and you thought you would never get over it? The one you can’t possibly live without? You will. Trust me. And you will laugh about how ridiculous you were. It will be them who miss out, and when they realise, it will be too late (cue holding a hairbrush in front of the mirror singing Beyoncé – Best thing I never had). Take a moment to curse, cry, moan, hope they stand on lego and then MOVE ON – forget what hurt you, but remember what it taught you. 

The big life plan

There is no plan. And it is impossible to live your life expecting everything to be how you plan it – you won’t enjoy the moments, you will be flapping it isn’t going to plan – and it will STRESS YOU OUT. Job I love by 18? Married by 23? Kids by 26? Nope, nope and nope. Life doesn’t work like that. So just enjoy every moment and take it as it comes. 

Be nice 

Simply, because you never know what someone is going through. Just be a nice person, it really isn’t hard. 



Save the pennies

Getting a job and getting a nice little pay packet at the end of the month always feels great. But getting in debt is not the one. So save small amounts, this will turn to big amounts – and its totally worth it. 

Time

Stop wishing it away. Eventually you will want to rewind it!

 

Do more of what you want to do 

It’s your life, no one else’s. Don’t be influenced by others or what is the said right thing to do. Do what makes YOU happy. 

And finally….be young

Make the most of having no responsibilities, adulthood comes with a WHOLE lot of them. Once you’re an adult – YOU ARE AN ADULT. Go through bad fashion, horrific make up and terrible self chopped hair cuts. Life without the internet, phones and video games – these were the best times. 



Make the most of it, enjoy it – and be happy! Is there anything you would tell your younger self?

🌟 Happy Sunday! 🌟

Lisa 👸🏼❤

Less house…more home 

I’ve lived in my flat now for 4 years (I think?!)….and it is in desperate need of  a revamp. It’s a lovely little place, however I would love to upgrade to a house now…..but sadly the pennies don’t quite reach it at the moment. But I do consider myself to be lucky enough to have a roof over my head, have a mortgage and share it with my fiancé and Pug. 


I started to fall out of love with the flat, it was messy and I didn’t care much for it (I’m stubborn, once I realised moving wasn’t going to be any time soon I had my little hissy fit and threw my toys out the pram. Knowingly doing this wasn’t going to solve any of my problems and I was just wasting time being a drama queen.)  So, how could I make it to be more homely again? CHANGE.


 Now, where to start?! I felt the spare room was the best place, this was the worst.When I moved in I put a double bed in here. Which was my first error. This room is a box room and it took up the WHOLE floor, I ignored this though, because of course I always know best (rolls eyes). This then became the dumping ground. Don’t know where to put something? In it goes. Can’t be bothered to put it in the right place? In it goes. Should probably throw it away but you are a hoarder? In it goes. This room was piled high of everything. And then the door would be shut. What you can’t see can’t cause you any bother right? Maybe while the door is shut yeah, but it’s going to have to be opened at some point. The mess in the room was making me feel this loathe for our home. I didn’t want to feel that. I wanted to get a sense of love and calm when I came through the door from work, I wanted to spend time in the home we work so hard to pay for. 

So…..operation clear out began. I knew I needed to be ruthless. If it had been shut in that room for however long not being used or quite honestly, not even knowing I had it – I knew so much had to go. Bags of rubbish, bags of clothes and other random bits all sorted. And finally that big bed (that got slept in once over the time we have lived here!) taken apart ready for the charity shop. I was adamant that the things that could be used or worn again went to Florence Nightingale Hospice  –  I believe one mans rags is another mans riches and if it can then help a charity (and this is a very important charity close to my heart) then this makes the feeling even better. I can’t believe the amount of stuff I had! So much clutter. Cleared. Gone.  


IT FELT AMAZING!!! 

I stood in the empty room excited with what I was going to do with it. My fiancé opted for a games room…..but this wasn’t quite what I was thinking (unfortunately for him lol). Something I have always dreamt of is a dressing room – and this is what I wanted, and lucky for me, I have a laid back fiancé willing to give up the idea of a games room without a fight (phew).


We don’t have ££££ to be spending – so Ikea, B&M and Dunelm were my target shops! I wish I had taken the before pictures to show what a state it was, but imagine a box room filled with a double bed and a chest of drawers, Everything covered in clutter – that pretty much sums it up. But here are the after pictures anyway – simple but such a diffence (I didn’t have the best lighting when taking the pictures, but you get the idea I’m sure!) 

I love spending time in here and getting ready, or even just reading a book and listening to music – it really has made a difference to our home. My fiancé has the added bonus that my make up isn’t all round the house now too! And the door is no longer kept shut.
What better way to start the new year with some decluttering. Your home should tell a story of who you are and be a collection of what you love – I still have bits I want to add and do, and we want to do more to other rooms but it certainly is a small step for us in the right direction. 

Lisa & Winston 👸🏼🐶❤